Sex is a Big Deal

Lately I have been going through post on facebook and feel people are not even drawn to the idea behind sex. A month ago I met a young lady who started dating because her parents were not giving her the space and things she needed. Am not against sex in fact it's a beautiful thing but only when it's done right.

Sex is a big deal and I feel you should know that God ensured that he performed the first marriage before Adam and Eve got together. Its a simple principle that God created "procreation".

During one of our sisters fellowship a question was raised "is kissing part of sin in a relationship" we all brought up ideas some backed up by the bible others not. We finally settled on the fact that everything always boils down to something. I do not have to show I love you through body contact or otherwise "flee from every appearance of evil" .

I met another lady last year and she told me how badly she would love her Virginity back and probably an opportunity to rewrite her past life. Imagine a flower that's has been plucked it never returns to the beautiful nature it once had even if it tries.

New era has created the man toy that ladies use because biblically one shouldn't have sex to a man or woman outside marriage so they feel the "Toys" are acceptable. I am not condemning anyone and neither am I saying am perfect but I just want you to know that Sex is a big deal for God. He expects so much from us and so when we defile the one thing he has given to you he feels disappionted.

Masturbation is another distraction the devil is using to break homes. A young man asked me recently "Rosemond don't you think masturbation is right since it wasn't stated in the bible?" I simply told him that masturbation is not God's idea for anyone and am going to add that the bible clearly states that "whatsoever things are right then think on those things" masturbation is for people that do not have the knowledge of Christ.

I trust that God has spoken to you and he wants the very best for you. If you can't help yourself then he is waiting to help you. Sex is best appreciated when it's with someone God has chosen for you. Let's allow God use us.

Sex is a Big deal
Sex is Beautiful

Rosemond Edem
Love you

Comments

  1. leuwiz25 February 2016 at 15:14

    What's wrong with masturbation, its not sexual intercourse?... what's wrong in masturbating if you are away from your spouse and you probably have that urge, its better than cheating...

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  2. leuwiz25 February 2016 at 15:17

    What's wrong with masturbation, its not sexual intercourse?... what's wrong in masturbating if you are away from your spouse and you probably have that urge, its better than cheating...

    ReplyDelete
  3. leuwiz25 February 2016 at 15:19

    What's wrong with masturbation, its not sexual intercourse?... what's wrong in masturbating if you are away from your spouse and you probably have that urge, its better than cheating...

    ReplyDelete

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