THE VOW
It was barely six months after we met but it felt like years with her. The truth is I had never for once met her family because she gave excuses everytime I asked and I wasn't going to force it out of her. I am 32 and most guys my age would be thinking of settling down and starting a family which is what I wanted for myself but she wasn't ready.
In September I decided that we needed to talk about her and marriage but she didn't seem interested at that point so I waited for her to come around with her story. That day was the longest day of my life because I did'nt know how to console her.
She had been a victim of sexual abuse while growing up which changed her perception about men. We talked at length but at that point I was sure she was the one I want to be with. Claire is a shy, humble, quiet, beautiful and can cook too "I mean a kind of meal that leaves you licking the tip of your fingers" she was scared of leting anyone inside her heart because she was like a glass once shattered.
We both decided to visit our pastor who built us up together and that increased our bond. We spent time studying the word and praying together. I never felt much closer to God than when I was with Claire indeed she was God sent.
The night before the big proposal I spent time on my knees asking God for direction and the grace to accept anything he had in store for me. I am not a writer and have never been good at telling stories but my life with Claire is a story I would tell over again. I got my writing pad and scribbled some words down and as I got writing I got more inspiration.
The big night soon came I never told Claire of our dinner because I didn't want her to be up tight and besides she loved surprises. I called up my pastor and told him the venue with a few close friends. The evening was going to be perfect because I was so confident. Thirty minutes to the time I called Claire and asked her to meet me at our favourite restaurant. I was sweating so much and my heart never stopped beating. At this point it dawned on me that i was going to make the biggest decision in a man's life.
Claire arrived minutes later looking beautiful as ever. I was starting to think her friends let her in on the secret but Claire has always been the fashion type even if she was going to the market. I got on one knee and held her hands in mine while reading out the "The Vow" I wrote the night before. I spoke with my hands sweaty as ever "Claire Edet have known you for a few months but to me it's like years and I have gotten to know your fears, joy and vulnerable part. In all, we got to know Jesus together and I must say that when I found you I found a good thing and I have obtained favour from God and man. I would be a loser if I let you walk out of my life. I want to be part of you and bear the hurt with you as we grow together in love. Will you Marry...? she didn't let me complete the question but she jumped up and hugged me with uncontrollable tears as I slid the ring in her finger.
I found my partner not in someone that was already made but God led me to someone who was going to build me and teach me that not everyone with a smile on their face have smiles in their heart but they're the strongest and God loves them the same.
In September I decided that we needed to talk about her and marriage but she didn't seem interested at that point so I waited for her to come around with her story. That day was the longest day of my life because I did'nt know how to console her.
She had been a victim of sexual abuse while growing up which changed her perception about men. We talked at length but at that point I was sure she was the one I want to be with. Claire is a shy, humble, quiet, beautiful and can cook too "I mean a kind of meal that leaves you licking the tip of your fingers" she was scared of leting anyone inside her heart because she was like a glass once shattered.
We both decided to visit our pastor who built us up together and that increased our bond. We spent time studying the word and praying together. I never felt much closer to God than when I was with Claire indeed she was God sent.
The night before the big proposal I spent time on my knees asking God for direction and the grace to accept anything he had in store for me. I am not a writer and have never been good at telling stories but my life with Claire is a story I would tell over again. I got my writing pad and scribbled some words down and as I got writing I got more inspiration.The big night soon came I never told Claire of our dinner because I didn't want her to be up tight and besides she loved surprises. I called up my pastor and told him the venue with a few close friends. The evening was going to be perfect because I was so confident. Thirty minutes to the time I called Claire and asked her to meet me at our favourite restaurant. I was sweating so much and my heart never stopped beating. At this point it dawned on me that i was going to make the biggest decision in a man's life.
Claire arrived minutes later looking beautiful as ever. I was starting to think her friends let her in on the secret but Claire has always been the fashion type even if she was going to the market. I got on one knee and held her hands in mine while reading out the "The Vow" I wrote the night before. I spoke with my hands sweaty as ever "Claire Edet have known you for a few months but to me it's like years and I have gotten to know your fears, joy and vulnerable part. In all, we got to know Jesus together and I must say that when I found you I found a good thing and I have obtained favour from God and man. I would be a loser if I let you walk out of my life. I want to be part of you and bear the hurt with you as we grow together in love. Will you Marry...? she didn't let me complete the question but she jumped up and hugged me with uncontrollable tears as I slid the ring in her finger.
I found my partner not in someone that was already made but God led me to someone who was going to build me and teach me that not everyone with a smile on their face have smiles in their heart but they're the strongest and God loves them the same.
Nice write up!
ReplyDelete